Crazy

Here is the Lisa update for all those interested...I got an email from Lisa on Monday that said she "ran into" Kendra who told her that I was having a hard time with Brandon. She (Lisa) is not allowed to see her kids anymore so she doesn't go home since it is too upsetting there. And she was thinking of going to see her friends in Austin, Texas.

So I responded to this email asking first of all, where one "runs into" Kendra. I then went on to say that I haven't talked to Kendra except for a very few minutes at her daughter's birthday party but I really didn't say much because I was too distracted by her ridiculous fake boobs to think of anything to say. I didn't know what she might have to say about me, but I know how things go through our family so whatever. I asked what was going on that Wally can prevent her from seeing the girls but I suspect she won't answer that.

Then I went to my mom's and I told her about this email and asked since when Lisa wasn't allowed to see her kids. My mom said that was new, she hadn't heard anything about that. The last she knew Lisa was coming to her mom's every weekend and seeing the girls for a few hours on Saturdays. Tuesday I got an email from my mom that was for Lisa that she asked me to forward to Lisa. I told her I agree with it completely, basically it said Lisa needs to grow up and think about her children and their future, but I gave her Lisa's email address and said she could send it so I wasn't in the middle of it.

On Wednesday I called my mom and asked her if she got the email and if she had sent hers on to Lisa. She said yes to both.

Then last night, Thursday, she called to tell me the update. She goes to see my grandmother on Thursdays and then has lunch with my aunt, Lisa's mom, so she found out what was up. Lisa is in Montana, on her way to Seattle because when she was in Seattle was the only time she was ever happy in her whole life. She called her mom to ask her to pay her cell phone bill because she can't pay it. Yet she can afford to take a bus to Seattle and where is she staying when she gets there? She was there around 1994, for a total of about three months. Her friend who went there with her moved to Georgia last year. Does she really have anyone out there now who is such a good friend she can stay with them? Whatever! That is really just my side commentary about that.

Anyway, she "ran into" Kendra at jail. Lisa was visiting her "boyfriend who's not her boyfriend" who is there because (so we're told) he violated his custody order. And Kendra was there visiting her boyfriend, who she told the family she is "done with", who she told Lisa is in jail for drug charges. Gotta love my cousins and their winner choices in men.

And that is all I know. My aunt is trying to talk to Wally about seeing the girls. She sent him an email and he responded that he wants to talk to Lisa but he also said that the girls have been asking to see her. You can tell his primary concern is the girls since they want to see their grandmother and he is still not letting them because Lisa won't talk to him. I think that's why she can't see the girls. She told him she won't talk to him unless it's about the girls and he calls her and text messages her all the time and she ignores it and won't respond unless it's about the girls. And she is completely right to be doing that. He totally wants to play head games with her. He has been doing this for three years, reeling her back in and then "nope, don't want to stay married", and he has a girlfriend so why should she talk to him about anything else? They are not divorced but they have already settled everything with property, debts, their stuff...there is no reason for him to bug her. If she had stopped talking to him about anything but the girls three years ago, things might not have gotten this bad. He is a serious head case.

I am waiting to see if I get a response to my email I sent Lisa or if my mom gets one. I think she'll ignore my mom's and I told her that. But she may mention it to me. It could be a while before I hear anything. She's in Seattle by now I am sure. I am still wondering why if she was so happy out there, like she always claims, she came back in the first place. But she never answers that question when I ask it.